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Why do they do it?

I have a suggestion for your question of why do they violate those boundaries?! Because in my experience in child welfare for 6 years in Pennsylvania-very rarely are they social workers. They may have their degree in psychology, art, music, or basket- weaving but they are still hired on as caseworkers and therefore have no "ethical" obligations or licensing standards. This is a huge problem that really must be addressed before we can hope to see change. Further, the people who are put in SUPERVISOR and ADMINISTRATIVE positions are not social workers therefore making it even worse for caseworkers who ARE social workers to try and maneuver a system in which their supervisors and administrators don't care, don't follow ethical or sometimes even legal standards. Unfortunately here, it still is the same way and until that can change I don't see much change happening in the child welfare system! :-(

Stephanie 139 days ago

Professional self

Helping people requires genuine connection; doing so professionally requires a level of detachment. My metaphor for the professional self is the placenta. It allows through what helps the fetus develop & grow; it filters out what's potentially harmful, even if completely harmless to the mother.

Professional helpers don't have a biological organ like the placenta to do this. Through training & practice, we instead develop an observing self. This must serve to monitor our own reactions and responses, even as we attend to what the client is saying and not saying, feeling & repressing, thinking & avoiding. Why do I say that? Does that serve some need of mine? Most importantly, does this help the client to grow? Would I think of something *more* helpful to say if I set my need aside, and satisfy that in some more appropriate, non-client context? Clearly, this is a lot more work than letting an organ independently do its work.

Tony Vazquez 206 days ago

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