Perspectives

by Rich Kenney, Jr., MSSW

We cannot change how we see others

It is unwise to think that

We are capable of expanding our views

Because, in reality,

The world is full of labels, slurs, and slights

Even if

We can put ourselves in another’s shoes

Judging and name-calling are the norms

And it’s unreasonable to think

It is all about kindness

Because

Compassion works

Only when it benefits us

It’s not true our integrity counts

I’m sure you can agree that

Empathy is another word for faking it

It’s impossible to endorse the notion that

Showing respect can improve lives

Welcome mats beget bad news

And it’s unsound to assume

It is all about open arms

Since

Embracing diversity can occur

Only when it improves our status

It’s incorrect to believe acceptance pays off

I’m sure you will concur that

Strangers are glaring warning signs

I do not believe that

We can change how we see others

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Rich H. Kenney, Jr., is an associate professor and Social Work Program Director at Chadron State College in Chadron, Nebraska.