Everyone Deserves To Feel Loved

by Michelle Ottaviano

     During my last year at Stockton University, by the time I finished my day at Inspira Life, rush hour traffic would be in full swing. While stuck in this stop and go traffic, I would find myself recounting the work day. Often, the thoughts of the participants would lead me to ponder the many aspects of my lifelong goal to become a social worker and my passion for helping others.

     I had the privilege of developing close relationships with these participants. I am grateful that this intimacy continually encouraged me to reflect on my own life and experiences. I have reaffirmed my compassionate values and further committed myself as an advocate for those who are struggling.

     Additionally, my experience aiding the aging population has been truly eye-opening. Many of the participants search for peace and resolution at the end of their lives. Others are entirely content with the course of their lives. This population has highlighted the need to have fulfillment and happiness in all aspects of my life, including my career.

     The knowledge and experience I have gained through my internship have already proven invaluable in my pursuit of social work. Although seemingly apparent in the name, I never truly understood how social a role that social workers play. The unique ability to work hand in hand with individuals and glimpse into the most intimate aspects of their lives is quite humbling. I can recall a time when one of my social work mentors and I traveled to a participant's home. The state of this participant's home and life was in shambles. At the end of our visit, my mentor hugged the participant and offered assurance that it was possible to make positive changes. On the drive back, my mentor told me that everyone deserves to feel loved. These words continue to resonate with me. I will certainly practice with the same caring and compassionate nature during my own career.

     As an aspiring clinical social worker, I have come to realize that unfortunate health and circumstances stem from a variety of issues. Finances, relationships, and mental illnesses are just a few. In continuing my education, I truly believe I can make an impact in this field. I have always been deeply in tune with my own thought processes and feelings. When I observe someone in need, I feel it is necessary for me to offer a helping hand. I believe my helpful spirit will carry me far in the field of social work.

     I can now reflect back to that traffic and be oddly thankful. This traffic allowed me to take breaks in my busy life and mentally reflect the passion I have for social work. Social work is my moral calling and ideal career path. Social work is a challenging field. However, I will embrace its toughest obstacles. By obtaining my MSW, I aim to one day provide compassionate support to all.

Michelle Ottaviano is a senior social work student at Stockton University. She works at Recovery Centers of America: Lighthouse, where she works with patients in their recovery process. "I cannot wait to see where this field takes me!" she says.